POP STAR CLAIMS SEX WITH GHOST
Artists and musicians are always seeking inspiration for their work, and in a recent radio interview with Ryan Seacrest, pop star Kesha talked about the inspiration for her new song "Supernatural." While many singers like Taylor Swift and Adele produce heartfelt songs about love and loss, Kesha's was a little different.
"There are so many weird topics on this record from having sexy time with a ghost to getting hypnotized and going into past lives. I just really wanted the theme of this record to be the magic of life," she told Seacrest.
Yes, "having sexy time" means what you think it means: Her song is about the time she had sex with a ghost. "I had a couple of experiences with the supernatural. I don't know his name! He was a ghost! I'm very open to it....I was in Africa rehabilitating baby lions. I went diving with great white sharks, and just went on this crazy spirit quest. I got hypnotized, and I just really wanted this record to be really positive, really raw, really vulnerable and about the magic of life."
While this may seem like a bizarre (or publicity-savvy) revelation, Kesha is not alone; in fact many people have reported similar sexual experiences with spirits... and psychologists may have an explanation.
Succubi, Incubi, and Psychology
This phenomenon is not new, and is the basis for medieval legends about male and female demons (incubus and succubus respectively), who sexually attack people at night in their sleep. In centuries past, a woman claiming to have had sexual relations with an unseen spirit would likely have been accused of witchcraft. Indeed, the notorious 1486 witch-hunting text "Malleus Maleficarum" contains a section titled, "Here follows the Way whereby Witches copulate with these Devils known as Incubi," in which the authors explain that sex with the unknown is inherently evil and a clear sign of congress with Satan.
In his book "The Terror that Comes in the Night," folklorist David J. Hufford estimates that about 15 percent of people experience being assaulted in their sleep by an unknown entity at some point in their lives.
These attacks -- sometimes scary, sometimes sexy, but always realistic to the person experiencing them -- are the result of normal brain misperceptions and illusions. Last year a British grandmother complained of being sexually assaulted by a ghost while in bed. She felt "a creepy pair of hands" groping her as she tried to sleep, though no one else was around.
Kesha did not elaborate on the circumstances behind her exciting encounter with the anonymous phantom paramour, but it's likely she experienced it in bed either while sleeping, or going into or out of sleep. Psychologists know that this is a time when people are vulnerable to common (and harmless) hallucinations -- including sexual experiences.
There may also be a clue in Kesha's comment about being hynotized; people who are under hypnosis tend to be in a very suggestible state (criteria for hypnotizability include being imaginative and open to suggestion).
If she had the experience during a personal, spiritual quest for the supernatural, her mind and imagination would be primed to interpret any unusual experiences as magical. An especially vivid or arousing sexual dream could easily have been interpreted as having been a real encounter with a ghost.
Of course, it's possible that Kesha really did have sex with a ghost -- and though he didn't leave his name, he left her with fodder for free publicity -- and maybe even a hit single.
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Spectrophilia is a fetish that is classified as the paraphilia in which one is attracted to ghosts or spirits. One may be aroused by reflections or images in a mirror. Oftentimes those with the spectrophilia fetish masturbate against mirrors. Spectrophiliacs fantasize about ghosts and often imagine scenarios involving sexual events between themselves or others and spirits.
In religion there is the succubus and the incubus. A succubus is a demon or evil spirit who takes on a female human form to seduce men. The succubus most commonly seduces men through intercourse. The succubus is known to take semen from the male for use in impregnating a woman. The counterpart of the succubus is the incubus. The incubus is a demon that takes on the male human form. The incubus, much like the succubus, seduces women into sex with the objective of impregnating the woman with its semen.[1] The belief that succubi and incubi are spirits or ghosts that have sexual intercourse with men and women classifies the phenomenon as spectrophilia.
There is speculation on whether spectrophilia actually exists. Even before spectrophilia was a documented term there were stories of spirits having sexual relations and procreating with humans. Several cultures have their own versions of spectrophilia stories. Arabic, Greek, Hindu, and Celtic are just some of the cultures that have spectrophilia folklore. Folklore is full of spectrophilia. The name for spectrophilia just differs for each culture. The different names are anything from Jinns in Arabic folklore to Dusii in Celtic Folklore. The stories have differences but all have one thing in common: ghosts having intercourse with humans.[1]
No scientific evidence has been documented on the phenomenon of spectrophilia. All the proof there is are the stories of those who claim to have been visited by these seductive entities. Research and interviews continue to be conducted by those in the paranormal field. Spectrophilia has become a frequently talked-about subject among ghost hunters. Ghost hunters such as the Ghost Adventures Crew have come across several claims of sexual encounters between ghosts and humans. The Travel Channel is becoming well known for its documentary on spectrophilia titled ‘Ghostly Lovers’.[2] In this documentary there are several women who go into the encounters they have had. Although there is no documented scientific evidence, the research on spectrophilia is only becoming more thorough.[3]
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People do not like to talk about their sexual activities with the spirit. People are afraid that if it known, they are considered to be insane or liars. Many do not know how this happens or why or how to stop it.
From my experience I know that most women get their first encounter with the spirit from their stay in hospitals. As women are at their weakest point during that period, the dead spirit roaming in the hospitals will chose their human lovers. Spirit too have needs and feelings like living human beings. The spirit are living in a roaming world of their own. Neither acknowledge as dead or alive. They go through motion like us except they cannot cook meals for themselves.
A woman do not just encounter with one ghostly lover. In fact the spirit are very generous and they do share a woman with their spiritual friends.
When the spirit wants to have sex they will give many signal like a cold blow at the eye or ear. A pinch at the arm or a pat on the leg.
How to stop it? It is not easy. Some women will carry pictures of Buddha or Jesus. Some women will use Religious Amulet. I can honestly tell you that these will never work. The only way is every time the spirit attempts to have sex, you have to scold them. But remember it is not just one spirit that joins you in bed. So you have to continuously scold them. But there are some spirit which can just touch your eyes and put you to sleep immediately.
For those who do not mind having sex with the spirit understandably as they are the best lovers to have around. Just be very, very careful. For the spirit can and will drag you to the dark world on a one way ticket journey.
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